How I Learned to Love (Real) Food Again

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Like the rest of America, I started the New Year with a resolution of eating better and being active. It wasn’t until the end of January that I became serious about the former.
After earning my Bachelor’s degree, I expected to take full advantage of my newly acquired free time by picking up old hobbies and learning how to cook. Instead I ate out. A lot. After months of pizza, Chinese take-out, and fast food burgers, I received a rude awakening: my bank statement. I added up all the times I had opted to order take out, grab fast food or eat at a chain restaurant in a single month and came up with an astonishingly embarrassing total of $162.00
I spent $162.00 on food I didn’t even enjoy. I decided I would change that before I became the literal embodiment of the Supersize menu. But first, how does one choose a banana over a Mrs. Fields cookie? How can one possibly choose between Panera’s panini and a home-made sandwich? It’s as easy as changing your perspective. Trust me. I am not, by any means, a food critic or an experienced cook which should provide some encouragement to even the most inept at the stove. Here are some simple steps I took to start enjoying home-prepared food and ultimately eating better.
1. De-construct Your Excuses - We’re all very busy, tired, distracted, stressed, [insert lazy] people. I acknowledge that and must move past it. If I have time for browsing my favorite blogs, I have time to make lunch for tomorrow.
2. Identify Your Needs - Whether you seek medical advice or not, it’s important to get a grip on what you really want out of your food. It’s hard to figure out since we’re so inundated with diet fads and reports on obesity (how about this bullshit book, Skinny Bitch?), but it all boils down to your basic, healthy needs. In my case, I wanted a change- I wanted to enjoy raisins again, I wanted to eat a fresh salad that I had prepared and I wanted to taste organic chicken without a dash of seasoning. It occurred to me that paying someone to hand me mystery meat in a paper bag from the side of a building isn’t actually normal or particularly healthy.
3. Make it Easy for Yourself - Figure out a good preparing schedule that works for you. I love to sit down and have a quiet, satisfying meal. Cooking or eating shouldn’t be a daunting chore, a diet assignment or a nuisance. I often feel drained when I come home from work, so I don’t want to spend a long time preparing the meal and juggling side dishes. I usually have leftovers from the night before or whip up a quick veggie salad with green beans, cottage cheese and olive oil (all of which are textures, colors, tastes and smells that I absolutely love!)
4. Learn to Enjoy the Smell of Food - This seems like it would be impossible to avoid but is an essential aspect of enjoying home-prepared food. The distinct smell of garlic simmering in a pan of rich olive oil sends all sorts of fun signals from your nose to your brain and you’ll find yourself salivating quite literally. Try closing your eyes and identifying foods in your home and at work. You’ll discover there’s an enormous difference between the intrusive, slightly musty smell of Lean Cuisine wafting through the cubicles at work and the pleasant, aroma of a marinated salmon cooking in a pan. In Bill Buford’s book, Heat, he describes how working in a chef’s kitchen had conditioned him to recognize when a dish had finished cooking simply by it’s smell.
5. Chew Your Food Slowly - I’ve read this step in several magazines that propose chewing slowly as a way to help curb large appetites and lose weight. I find that chewing slowly preserves those divine melt-in-your-mouth moments: the perfectly grilled steak, a hot lightly buttered corncob, the tart taste of a freshly blended smoothie. Ask yourself these questions as you chew: What seasoning or condiments do I taste? Is it salty or sweet, or both? What sorts of unexpected flavors would I be willing to try (i.e. cinnamon to salmon)?
6. Be Picky - Allow yourself the option to eat what you enjoy, reintroduce yourself to foods you haven’t had in a while or foods you once hated/loved. Don’t have the taste buds for pickles? Can’t stand the texture of yogurt? Hate eating the same thing two days in a row? That’s ok! When preparing chicken for the week, try a variety (breaded, marinated, grilled etc). Don’t get discouraged, it’s impossible to get bored with a world of food to discover!
7. Lastly, do your research and have fun - As with everything in life, moderation is key. It’s important to keep a healthy balance so read up on nutrition, always consult your doctor and don’t be afraid to try new things such as vegan recipes or foods from your local ethnic market.
Who knows, maybe soon you’ll find yourself turning down that invitation to eat at Chik-fil-a to try the Waldorf salad you whipped up the night before. Eat up and enjoy!
February 13th, 2008 at 3:01 pm
Thanks for the advice. I actually have been eating out a lot, but I’m busier than I’ve ever been (even busier than last semester) and I have still not resorted to fast food restaurants, so I like to think I’m doing okay. Hopefully it is only a temporary situation.
As for the skinny bitch book, thanks for the link. I’m working at Borders right now, and this book is realy popular with the dieting crowd. I admit to having not read the back cover, because I knew it was a dieting book and I don’t put much stock in fad diets. But when the customer checks it out and wants to chat about it whilst doing so, I still play nice and am encouraging. Sometimes I think the world could use a higher infusion of adbusters in their lives.
February 13th, 2008 at 4:28 pm
Hey Mari! How are you! I haven’t commented in forever. Im Kari from Crystal-Dust. I don’t know if you remember me but we used to be affys. I just got my site back up and wanted to know if you wanted to be affys again? Thanks!
February 14th, 2008 at 7:04 pm
Vanessa, there’s a lot of controversy surrounding the Skinny Bitch book. I haven’t read it yet and I doubt I will. I personally don’t believe in diets and strongly believe it’s all a matter of moderation and being knowledgeable about the pros/cons of certain foods.
Kari, Thanks for stopping by to check on me! I’d love to exchange links with you again and I’m happy your blog is up and running again!
February 16th, 2008 at 4:23 pm
I haven’t read “Skinny Bitch,” but I’ve heard about it and it seems like a terrible book designed to fuel eating disorders :/
I really enjoyed your tips, I think they are are all spot-on.
February 16th, 2008 at 7:41 pm
I know what you mean about spending outrageously on take-out. I try to eat in when ever I can but Manuel is always getting food to-go. I try to keep it to a minimum but he’ll do it 2x a day if possible.. so much wasted $$.
Thanks for the tips you posted!!
February 17th, 2008 at 4:00 pm
Hmmm…interesting tips. The savouring your food bit is probably the most helpful. It always amazes me how quickly people eat their food and don’t take the time to enjoy it. I’m guilty of this, too. I’m always eating while doing other things…
Anyway, glad to see your blog is back!!
February 17th, 2008 at 9:10 pm
that is great advice, love your list. cooking is such a loving thing to do, we should all think of it as a gift to ourselves and the people we love.
February 19th, 2008 at 10:36 am
Sasha, I haven’t read it either, but after that scathing review on Salon.com, I don’t think I ever want to.
Anna, occasionally I end up eating while I’m walking around tidying up the house- I’ll have a sandwich in my hand or a smoothie but then, late, I can’t recall what it tasted like or even what I had!
Veronica, I think love is always a special ingredient. There is always something special in food that’s been cooked lovingly then thrown on a plate as an order.
February 19th, 2008 at 6:02 pm
I’m with you, I decided to eat healthier and bought a quart of soy milk. After tasting it I have to wonder how people drink it. Unless they load it up with chocolate maybe . . .
February 20th, 2008 at 8:57 am
Michelle, it does take some getting used to but they do have soy milk that is lightly flavored with vanilla and chocolate! I usually don’t drink milk by itself in a glass (I have my milk with tea, cereal or oatmeal) so the difference is minimal for me.
March 3rd, 2008 at 2:05 am
I’ve heard good things about Skinny Bitch, although I’m not hardcore vegan or anything.
Some good tips though. I love seeing my refrigerator full and it definitely saves money.
March 4th, 2008 at 8:57 am
I don’t think I could go hardcore vegan. It’s just too difficult, I’m too absentminded to keep track of my foods and if their ingredients are animal products.